Anonymous asked: The worst thing is that about a month before I moved he told me that after a few months it would be okay to have sex with other guys. You know. To try and keep some sexual activity still going.
DEFINITELY dump him
Anonymous asked: My boyfriend has been trying to get me to go to therapy for the sole purpose of fixing my sex drive, because I'm "fucked up" for not having a high sex drive like he does.
dump him, he’s an asshole and needs a swift kick in the self esteem
miss-dumpliing asked: That anon was complete bullshit. I go to therapy. Doesn't mean I'm "fucked up". Going to therapy doesn't mean anything like that. It just means that you're actually making an effort (which is NOT easy, or cheap) to better yourself and I'm proud of you uwu
I go to therapy because I have things I need help with and things I need to work on. EVERYONE has things they need help with and things they need to work on. There’s nothing shameful about getting help you need and trying to get better and be better.
if you listen to anons, you’ll never win
if you dont go to therapy or can’t afford it, you’re not doing enough to help yourself and aren’t worth shit
if you do go to therapy, you’re fundamentally fucked up and broken and aren’t worth shit
there is no way to win
heyo, so im putting together one last beg post for posterity
(who would want a poster of a beg post i ask you)
between everything and everyone top surgery is nearly in the bag! and i want to thank everyone who donated last time, you all really knocked a huge chunk out of the cost and made it way more feasible, you are all wonderful
the only thing is, there’s one last hospital fee that i’ve gotten mostly covered, but i’m still $300 short, so if anyone chooses to donate, my paypal button is still stationed at the bottom of my blog
most of the donations last time were in $5 to $20 increments, so even if you only feel able to donate a buck or so, it still helps and last time it added up to a really nice sized chunk of change, so don’t worry if you want to donate but can only throw a dollar or so my way, it’s greatly appreciated no matter what
i’m not twisting any arms, if you don’t want to donate or don’t feel you can donate, that’s a-ok, just reblogging helps
any extra that gets raised will go towards gas and food costs for the trip down (or to help pay for ongoing medications that keep me breathing and my brain working), so don’t worry about anything being squandered, it all pretty much goes towards shit i need
again, paypal at the bottom of my page, don’t feel you’re being forced to donate, just give if you’re down with giving and reblog if you’re down with reblogging, and have the raddest of days!
reboggling for the day krew
hey so i read the article about those anti-semitic leaflets in ukraine and its hella scary but: everyone in any way official (including the people whose names were used on the leaflets) are denying any connection with them and the reaction from literally everyone seems to be “this is horrifying and not ok” so like. yeah its still really scary and there are definitely fucking nazis everywhere but also this seems more like a terrorist tactic than a governmental body laying the groundwork for extermination.
maybe im wrong but i hope not